If
you analyze the characteristics of various people, you can categorize them
broadly in three different categories. For
the first category, they never say no to any work, they may not be successful
all the time, but the die-hard attitude prompts them to try and in this process
after many attempts, they become successful partially, if not fully. These
people are full of confidence and love, they never get angry and feel that one
can touch any benchmark and one can transcend any hurdles, provided the mental
power and thoughts are always positive. They are ready to face all sorts of
challenges in life. For the second category, they always see the situation as
gloomy, they worry most of the time. They drown not because they decide wrongly
to jump in the water; they drown because they never taste the depth of the
water with an assessment of their abilities confidently. These people are lack
of stamina to combat the odd situations. They are expert to criticize other’s
activities and discourage and provoke others not to try or do anything.
The third category is the type of persons who are mostly the followers
without exercising their own power of confidence and mental ability. They
merely accept any work from their buddies, bosses or their superiors and
discharge the same. They never bother to find out whether their accomplishment
is purposeful or not.
To
substantiate the above hypothesis, let us afresh the story of two frogs. One of
them is big and the other one is small.
Due to some mistake, both of them fell down into a pail of milk. The
sides of the pail were slippery, making the frogs unable to climb and come out.
The frogs were trying their best to stay alive.
They desperately need oxygen for their survival. On every occasion,
whenever they try to rise above the level of milk to inhale oxygen, they could
not do so because of slippery surfaces, and ultimately they fell down. They struggled very hard to come out. During this struggle, the big frog could not
sustain and ultimately died. The small
frog also struggled very much, and in this struggle, he was getting more
stubborn, rigid and determined to remain alive. So, he paddled continuous hours
after hours. Because of his continuous
paddling, the milk starts getting a bit solidified and butter was formed
because of churning motion. No sooner,
the milk got converted into butter and become a little solid, the small frog got a base and jumped out. This fable proves
that if you don’t lose your confidence and if you are determined to cross any
barriers, you can do so. The habit of
less confidence, always be pervaded with anxieties and negative happenings,
will not only reduce your tenacity to get successful, but also will pollute your
judgement. Many negative thoughts like “I cannot do this particular work,
because it is very tough,” “I will never pursue my studies in mathematics as I
am very weak in that subject,” or “I will not be able to score a good mark in
my ensuing examination,” always spoil your energy and enthusiasm and these are
predominantly found out in the people, who mostly have a pessimistic outlook
for their life. To such a person, success and achievement are almost like
shifting a mountain. As per the research
findings, the people on an average pass
through around 80000 thoughts daily. Out
of all these thoughts, eighty percent are negative and most of these are
repetitive. This reminds us that we think in the same pattern days after days. When
you continually think in negative pattern, the same gets entrenched in the
brain so deeply that you tend to act in a particular pattern, which always goes
against your wish.
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Special
effort is needed to remove negative
thoughts, so that the brain is tuned to think in terms of positive only. To get
rid of negative thoughts, one must avoid to identify the thoughts either as
good or bad. You have to pretend that
these thoughts evolve from your collective consciousness and you have no control
what enters your brain. So, You must ignore them by your power of
assessing just like the spectators
watch sports. In any field of
competitive game, a spectator is always watching from outside and so in the
case of any of your thoughts, if you can inculcate this similar type of behavior, you will not be
bothered whether the thoughts are negative or positive one. Further, to avoid negativity, you fill up
your mind always with constructive thoughts.
We all know that an idle brain is the workshop of a devil. When your mind is vacant, the negative
thoughts get a chance to enter and influence you to act negatively. Further, to
overcome the power of negativity, you involve yourself in deep meditation to
get connected with positive energy, the source of which flowing the cosmic
current within you. Further, invoke the
power of your mental stamina and vision power based on the above postulates
regularly. Engage your mind forcibly to oust negative thinking. In your daily meditation, you resort to the
power of the divine force to outflank the negative influences on your life. If you are perturbed that you cannot achieve
anything in life and you are mostly smeared with the thoughts of failures, you
will be snared in the doldrum. But if
you are always fighting with your zeal to grow, achieve obstacles, overcome
barriers, then you will be definitely able to transcend all your difficulties
and emerge as a winner. So, never give up.
Try and try and accept your failures. Through these failures only, you
will achieve success. But if you are afraid to get outflanked by the failures,
then, failure will surmount you; you will not be an achiever then. Lastly, the
pessimism in life will always delude you to accomplish less.
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