Friday, May 1, 2015

Expressing gratitude is an admirable virtue



Out of all human qualities, expressing gratitude is one of the biggest virtues, which not only enriches human life, but also is very encouraging to develop relationship. To express a sincere gratitude even in a gloomy situation, the environment will become full of joy. In fact, this quality of expressing gratitude is an indispensability. You must express gratitude to many people after your fulfillment of many desires for which they have extended their assistance to you. First, you have to show this unique quality to your parents who is instrumental for your birth, then brought you up, give education and social recognition and always love you. Second, you must express gratitude to nature for its kindness to you to breathe, get air, light, nutrients and everything it can offer. We must be indebted to nature for our life time for its so much kindness, given to us. Without nature’s big contribution, our life is almost  nowhere. Gratitude implies because we are so much indebted to its  all natural resources and its ingredients. In turn, we do not give back anything to nature. So, why not to express at least gratitude? Third, you express gratitude to everyone you come in contact daily while performing your professional and social activities.
By God grace, we get human lives, moral characters from our loving parents, friendly societies, fresh foods and quality shelters and many other things.  During our birth, some of these assets are plenty, but as we grow and our mind becomes self centered, we are getting mentally polluted and physically dirty. It does not happen with everyone, of course majority falls in this category. We must remember that our inheritance does not cease with our bodies. We have to acknowledge that we have a rich cultural and intellectual heritage for which we must show heartfelt gratitude and we should also be proud to do so. As stated above, primarily, we must show gratitude to our parents. At the same time, we must express gratitude to the saints and sages  who sacrifice their lives to express their kindness to expand humanity and protection of human beings by imparting their spiritual knowledge and wisdom. The power of grace they shower on their disciples, associates and common people are just unparalleled and since, they show light and correct path to us, we must be grateful to these sages.  Further, through various Yagnas/sacrifices, we show our gratitude to departed souls. In Gita, it is indicated that Prajapati, the creator of the universe, knowingly creates this Yagna or sacrifice. The human beings must face these Yagnas/sacrifices as a medium to purify their thoughts to be more fruitful and prosperous in life. The more Yagnas one encounters in his life, the more he becomes strong and ultimately, his mental power will be tuned to be more receptive. His attitude of gratitude will make him to obtain more blessings from every corner. He will always express a feeling of contentment.  In fact, Krishna teaches us,“Propitiate Devas with Yagnas/sacrifices and get amply blessed by them in return.”

We take birth in this earth, but each of us has our own individuality, own relevance, contribution in our overall existence and our expression of the creation.  You should not have a wrong notion that when you put various materials in a blazing fire, this alone constitutes the Yagna. It is also an expression of gratitude when your mind completely devotes to see the beginning & end of a Yagna with a pure and sacred heart, sublimity and remembrance of God. Then only, you get the power of the divine and you are able to show your affinity to the spirituality. You will be fully energized with the power of expressing gratitude. Under this mental phase, you will be devoid of rivalry, ill feelings for others, jealousy and dishonesty, nepotism, favors, ego, bickering and animosity both in professional and social lives. All these negative traits will not be there or will be insignificant.

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If you carry out any sacrifice with a vested interest, you will not be able to obtain any result. The effect of gratitude will be missing when you are under a delusion and longing for an attachment. Your whole life will be full of meaningful and effective Yagnas provided you can distract all delusional desires. Life and matter must be a free flow expression evolving from your own self, no matter what is your goal. You can be an ideal person when you express gratitude with prudence and perseverance. Then, you will be able to exercise all your resources, efforts, hardship and diligence very effectively. If you are not bothered to express gratitude or express the same as a matter of fact, you invite your downfall from the grace of God. Gratitude has a deep, comprehensive bearing and long lasting effect on our life, the surroundings and the various generations past and to come in future. It must also include nature as a whole. You must practice to show  gratitude to all living and non-living objects.  It is also good to feel gratitude to the source of these living and non living objects.  Further, a  nation as a whole is getting enlightened and flourished in all respects when it shows enough gratitude to its senior citizens as well as the past generations.

Gratitude has a tremendous bearing for all individuals, various segments of society and all others, who believe in  these concepts and follow the same.

There is nothing greater than the proverb of “Attitude for gratitude for everything every time.”



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