Saturday, May 23, 2015

Don’t see everything in the mirror of past to decide the future




People always repent that they are not able to progress in their lives because their  deeds, which were performed by them in the past were mostly faulty and so, they are not able to celebrate and enjoy their lives fully. In the light of  the said negative thinking, they further miss the opportunities of the future. Since, they have made mistakes in the past, they think that in future also, the same sequence will be continued. They are not able to foresee the bright future ahead and celebrate their future boldly. To come out of this tricky situation, you must celebrate all the happenings in your life, as per the prevailing situation. There are two types of celebrations. First, for all your accomplishments, you express thanks spontaneously to others and show your reverence to God for the particular achievement.  Second, don’t cling like a crippling plant to the past and  always see  in the forward direction. You have to take the movement of life as a perpetual method of existence. In the tug of war of constraints and happiness in life, you may take any excuse for a celebration. Of course, this celebration should not be construed as an enjoyment of mixing with people, taking foods, gossiping and making fun. This celebration is some sort of a purification of your mind and sanctity and sacred must be attached to this. This is a typical pattern of the rejoicing of your mind, body and spirit. When you continually perform this type of celebration, it rejuvenates your mental power, which uplifts and unities of everyone  around you. You will be immensely benefited as it frees you from the clutch of the memories of gloomy incidents of the past and increase your hope for a better future. This type of celebration is like you are performing a typical type of service, which is a sacred one. The most important aspect of this celebration is that it must be society oriented and not limited to your own benefits. This celebration should never be your pleasure seeking adventure.  When this celebration is mixed with purity and prayer, it provides an environment of respect.  It then produces any entertainment for the mind or the excitement in the body, and the soul gets refined and searching for a divinity. This celebration is not at all related to external sensual enjoyment, but it is mostly linked to showing kindness to others and performing a moment to moment analysis of your various deeds. This celebration is an attitude of obtaining your perfection from various constraints, experiences, feelings and activities generally happen in your life. To carry on with this type of celebration, you need not be a wealthy person. You may not be having a rich inheritance or you may not be borne with a silver spoon. It must come from your inner sense of idealism and how you enthuse joy, energy, vigor and determination to achieve something in your life. Then only, you will get a satisfaction from this type of celebration.  You have to celebrate more  when you are in distress, you are perturbed and you grapple with the fear of failures. You have to reconcile various experiences of the past and mix the same with the present  and move on to the future with a determination of success. You must share your joy with others.  Life needs to be forwarded in search of the best. In your forward movement, you will come across rough terrains, but they will always show you how to conquer the worst. The difficulties provide you depth and  to show you the roads to fight against turbulence. The people, who are wise enough are able to see the past as their destiny, the future as their goal and the present as their existence and in this sequence, they remain happy.  


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The unwise people always see the past as their faults, think that nothing will happen in  the future because the same is destined and these people are not able to enjoy the present.   The memory of past  teaches us many lessons; which path we should follow and which one we should not. It is true that you get lots of thorny moments in your life and you must take the same in your stride because all those troublesome moments bring more wisdom and knowledge. Now, the experiences related to the joys and pleasures provide us a new dimension of life and hope for the future. You must accept the future with pleasure.  This pleasure evolves when you are aware that you are loved.  If you understand that you are not loved, you won’t be able to celebrate your life. You will remain in anxieties.  In this phase, you become restless, you become self centered and greedy only to visualize your own benefits. When you are always searching a comfortable position for you in all respects and if you are not getting the same, you become angry. Once you are angry, you become frustrated and then feel gloomy passing through a chain of reaction of unpleasantness. Some people opine that being quiet is known as spirituality. Some think a celebration is spirituality. But spirituality is mixed of outer quietness and inner celebration; and inner quietness and outer celebration. The real celebration is the one, which comes out of silence from the bottom of your heart and the core of your mind. This creation is infinite and it is a mystery.  These mysteries are beyond recognition; these are only to be loved.  Love is a mystery. In the same way, sleep is a mystery.  Your mind is a big mystery.  But when you try to analyze all these mysteries, you are in a big confusion. When you are able to come out of this confusion stage, you feel enlightenment. During the celebration as stated above, people often show their ignorance about the real purpose and convey their feelings accordingly. Out of ignorance, they answer many times in a negative way or remain silent. In this way, they invite more sorrows and fewer joys in their lives. Instead, they must remain  focused and simply be in the mode of assertion as this life itself is a big challenge and mystery. You just live, enjoy, analyze, perceive and then continue to bear with the same. When you will be able to master the total credentials of your life, joy dawns. You need not focus all your attention to the past and make the future gloomy.  Past is past, forget the same, be remain in the present and move forward to celebrate the present and the future.



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