Most
of us have a tendency to think for various types of insecurities in our lives.
Even something worst might have not happened, but we started to think of the
crisis and our enemy Mr. Insecurity grapples and makes us gloomy. At times we
become so sensitive that we contemplate to even suicide. Feeling insecurity may
turn you gradually to a negative thinker and you will not be only afflicted
with mental disharmony, but also your physical health will be substantially
deteriorated. Further, this feeling will be having catastrophic consequences in
your professional, personal and social circles. Insecurity derives mostly from
unwanted anxieties. It is true that life is not a smooth path. There will be
turmoil, anxieties, constraints and various impediments. But one has to know
the techniques how to overcome the same. Truly speaking, all the wrong
consequences derived out of various bad situations should not have brought the insecure feeling at all. But the thoughts
related to the impending anxieties only make us more conscious and we become
tense and insecure. At that stage, many unwanted questions repeatedly crop up
in our mind. What will happen? How will
we survive? How will we face all these
troubles? All these questions only make
us insecure. For example, we fear about loss
of a job, we fear about the loss of our wealth, name, reputation and even loss
of our beloved family members and all these thoughts happen more often
than despite whether the same happen or not
in reality.
The
various disorders due to anxieties are based on exaggerated neurobiological sensitivity, which
is a cognitive affinity towards information flow regardless of its correctness.
If this neurobiological sensitivity happens regularly in your life, it will
lead you to stress syndrome and chronic inflammation in your body and then
making your mind in a panic. It will
make you look old and haggard and restless even though you are not that old. You will be proven to be a stressful person and
your temperament will always be out of control. Most of the time, you will be feeling
irritated and on a slightest provocation, you will outburst. There are end numbers of medical cases when
you or anybody might have observed that young, otherwise healthy individuals
suffer a heart ailment or a heart attack because they are unable to control
their anxieties or insecure feelings. This insecurity is in direct proportion
to the degree of attachment. The more you are attached to anything or any
relationship, the more you will be unsettled towards that particular aspect. In
a love and hate relationship, you will observe this sequence more
predominantly. For example, for your
commute to your working place, you require a car. You have its possession by an
arrangement of the loan. After a short while, you become too much possessive to
acquire a particular brand of high end model, which is beyond your means, but somehow
you manage that particular swanky car. In that case, you will be definitely
inviting trouble for your financial health. And this trouble will lead you to
insecure feeling in the near future. You will be tempted to think whether your
decision to purchase a higher end model is justified or not. At a subsequent
stage, if you lose this luxury item, means you are not able to afford the car
any more; you feel insecure and become sad and pale.
In
our life, we take a lot these types of impulsive
decisions. Ultimately, our these decisions land us into depression. Remember
that indulgence is not a bad habit, but craving for the same and fear of losing
it, is awful. There is a famous adage that the monk need not to sell his
Ferrari. He has to subjugate his mind for not showing limitless attachment to
the same. Insecurity always makes us crave for attachment to some specific
things. Our spiritual gurus preach us to lead our lives as dispassionate human beings. We should not
be a passionate person to cling to anything, which only makes us more insecure.
Except spirituality, you should not be attached to any worldly affairs more
than its need. That extra attachment will bring insecurity.
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In
the case of spirituality, the more and more attachment will not be harmful at
all because spirituality does not bring any depravity. When you show the
attachment to anything, the same is much more than self-denial. You need a lot
of mental courage and fortitude to convince you for the denial.
In
today’s fast paced life, we require name and fame and want to make a fortune
quickly. Our energy always propels us
for competitive mindset, provoke us in
unscrupulous race, only care for self-growth and we keep the ardent desire for position and
hierarchy in corporate entity. All these factors make us to run pillar to post
and when the goals are not met through, the feeling of insecurity engulfs us. Insecurity
is a damaging consequence. It can trouble you ceaselessly. Insecurity
predisposes one to act recklessly and the outcome of the same is terribly
disastrous. When people reach that stage, they are termed as hyper or in
layman’s language as short- tempered. If
you happen to mingle with these types of persons or if they are your colleagues
or even life partners, you must be very careful in dealing with them. Such
people sometimes may create unpleasant situations. We are aware with two
quotients, namely emotional and intelligent. Apart from these two influencing
factors, which mostly determine the pros and cons of our lives, there is another quotient exists. The
same is known as security quotient. One must be taught of this psychological
aspect how to combat against various unruly scenes in life. There is a specific
point positioned in the hypothalamus that decides the level of our satiation.
Some people are satisfied easily and some others are always disgruntled despite
everything they have. We always debate whether we should be easily contended or
we should be very ambitious to achieve
our goals after goals. If you are very passionate in your work or to your
studies or to some extra curriculum activities, the same should not be
considered as a precursor of excessive attachment. Rather, it should be treated as a blessing. But
If you cling very much to the end
results of all your said efforts, the same is damaging, because once you are
being deprived of your desired results of your efforts, you start feeling completely
insecure. The flame of your desires is just inflamed by the allurement and
greed of your excessive attachment. In other words, contentment is one of the
effective ingredients of your well being both mentally and physically and it
will save you from insecure feeling.
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