How do you define the intensity of your emotion? It is a benchmark
of your true identity? If you perform
all your functions starting from wake up to retiring at night in an ideal and
perfect way, you are a follower of rules and regulations of moral living. So your
every moment in your life is utilized perfectly and you get effective
output. Why it is so? Because all the functions, which you perform
daily, you act sincerely. But most of us
perform our various functions as doers. Just for the purpose of doing, we act,
for example, somebody smiles; you also reciprocate your instant functioning by
providing a return smile, which might not be an act of spontaneity. You are doing a showmanship. You may not really want to smile, but since
the other person is a reputed one in the society and a quite influential man,
you act and so, you smile. What you have
done; you smile as a doer. This issue has no real emotion. In another way, he
has pampered you by smiling and you are being cajoled to give a return smile.
If you analyze the issue closely, you will find that it is a matter
of exchange of pleasantry. He has expressed his positive vibe, which you have
acknowledged in a controlled manner. You
have judged his emotion and retorted back.
Now, if you analyze your emotional effect in depth, your reciprocating
action could be a bargain, a trade, and a businesslike attitude or a simple
social mannerism. Somebody smiles at you and you have also done so. Mostly, it
is an artificial smile, as if the same has been produced by a machine. Without utilizing your emotional feeling, you
smile. It is just an act on that particular moment. It has not created any
sincere feeling for the other person.
This type of emotion has no sincerity. It is completely hollow as you
have manipulated your smile. There is no
authenticity on your part. In this way,
you are manipulating your body and mind and you are also responsible for his
manipulation. In our society, this type
of manipulation is widely spread and people simply are not able to identify the
emotional depth of existence. Precisely,
that is the reason, being religious also; we are not attracted to the
spiritualities and functions of the spiritualism. Because quite often, we forget our
spontaneity. We all become
artificial. In this atmosphere, we
create the situation of hell. Your love
has no meaning because the same is impure.
Your love is false. Your hate is
false. Your smile is false. Your feeling
is false. Your tears are false. You are
not in a position to take any decision.
The question comes how can you stay in this false environment and
enjoy happiness? Instead of living in an
artificial surroundings, accept the spontaneity, which comes from your heart.
Coming back to the issue of smiling, it was not a sincere smile from your side. But this type of situation cannot be hidden
for a long. Sooner or later, your
pretension or non-spontaneity will come to the surface. But if you smile with spontaneity, you will
feel that your whole being is smiling; only your lips are not taking part. When you resort to this path of spontaneity,
everybody around you during that particular time will glow and there will be a
feeling of friendly atmosphere all around. Since all the people around you will
be happy; you will be also connected to the profundity of happiness.
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Even emotions need spontaneity.
If positive emotions shown by you are false, they will be treated as a
pretense. In the same way, when the
negative emotions shown by you as authentic, the same will be termed as
beautiful. People say anger is a
destructive emotion. But this anger can
be termed as nice, if your whole beings feel angry. It means that you are not
pretending to be angry. If you are really angry, despite it is being a negative
emotion, your all sensations will be vibrant and people will not take you as a
bad tempered person. They may appreciate your negative emotion as you are
showing spontaneity. For example,
analyze the behavior of a child. He
cries to fulfill his any need and no sooner his need is satisfied, he stops
crying. You observe his behavior, which is completely based on
spontaneity. When a child becomes angry,
he runs from one corner to another, his face will be reddish, he may spit and
he may throw anything he finds nearby. When
his anger subsides, he starts again running, dancing, hugging you, as if
nothing has happened. For an adult, it
does not happen. Because most of your actions are based on the false and you
swirl in the movement of incorrect actions continuously. If your anger is real, it lasts for a few
seconds. Why? Because you are angry for a true cause and
there is no false reason behind your anger.
At that point of time, your showing anger is justified. And your anger will be harmless, because it
will not continue for long. If anything
evolves with spontaneity, it cannot harm anyone. The negative emotions are also good, if they
are authentic. People have a wrong
notion about negative emotions that these are bad and causing dangers both mentally
and psychologically. It is bad provided the reason is based on falsity. But if the negative emotions are authentic,
it may transform us.
If you closely analyze the power of emotions, both positive and
negative, you will find that emotion derived on authentic reasons will do well
and will not destroy. All your emotions
will become more and more positive and a time will come when you will not be
affected either by positive or negative emotions. You cling to authentic. At that stage, you forget to discriminate
between good and bad. You are not
bothered what is positive and what is negative? This feeling of authenticity
will strengthen your introspection power to search only for the real.
And when you know the real, you will be able to find out the truth. Then emotions will not mold you, you will
mold the emotions as there is no feeling of positive or negative for you.
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