Developing self reliant people

Everyone wants to pocket a high dimensional success, which of course, comes through very many obstacles.  But, the true strugglers, overcome the hurdles and reach the ambitions, they dream for through self reliance.  Ambitions develop a passion of achieving the desired goals in a person, and make his life more meaningful.  Constant efforts are required for any accomplishment, and it is possible only when you rely upon your own abilities instead of searching for an outside assistance. It’s ok if you seek out some sort of guidelines or instructions from others, but total dependence may cripple your efforts and prove as good as one type of slavery for you. 

If you develop a habit of being self-reliant, you will be able to evacuate all stumbling blocks from your way to success.  No doubt, a self reliant person has to put sweat-pouring efforts in all his missions because his attitudinal behaviour compels him to fight and conquer all his battles himself singlehandedly.  He is destined to work in this fashion.  But, this whole process of his hardship gains him the unprecedented knowledge of the specific subject, and this knowledge, sets him free from all uncertainties, fear, impatience, gloominess, etc.

However, there are many other factors that help you make self reliant.  They are as under:-

Self help: 

         It is one of the good habits to gear you up.  Without any outside aid, support and advices, if you are able to manage your business, you will become more independent; and this will render you enough strength to handle challenges in your life; be it academic, professional or social.  Once you succeed in yours tasks all alone, you would start believing that “self help is the best help”. Your mindset will enable you to convert the challenges into opportunities.

         However, self reliant people never like any bindings; they are the independent performers who, all the times, look for freedom to express their views and action plans and to implement their programmes. Though being freedom lovers, they do not work in a disordered fashion, but they set disciplinary standards for themselves and strictly follow the same until accomplishment of the targeted aims. Such personalities are truly full of confidence and self reliance.

        

Capable to achieve: 

         If you are self conscious about your capabilities, you can definitely produce the excellent results in all your endeavours. But, the consciousness alone cannot serve the purpose.  You need to hone your skills and chase the tasks with commitment. Your skillfulness empowers you with self reliance which in turn, earns you enough abilities to garner success.

         Abilities are attained through a lot of hard work, perseverance and diligence, which enables you win the success – a pillar that uprights on the soil of pain-stacking hard work.

Pernickety Workmanship:

Your efficient way of accomplishing tasks increases your inner strength and empowers you to take up bigger challenges.  If your efficient way of working becomes your attitudinal habit, you will be able to realize your potentiality to a level, where you can judge investing more of your time for a perfect workmanship in any sphere of your life.  And the perfection in workmanship brings you an abundant success. 

Perfection comes through commitment, sincerity, knowledge and skills.  The more you increase the knowledge, the more you understand the task; and the more you know the task, the more it comes easy for you.  Your ability to complete the tasks gets perfect.  It is the knowledge that makes you perfect in your workmanship.

Power of sustenance:

Your existence depends a lot on the strength of your self sustenance.  You can grow in confidence with the development of this trait in you. Sustenance enables you to discriminate the favourable and unfavourable situations. You will also be able to find out remedies even in the unfavourable situations. By the strength of self-sustenance, you will have a joyous state of mind and you will enjoy involving yourself more into the jobs carrying bitter situations. As your involvement gets deeper and deeper, you would grab required tactics to overcome the obstacles and feel more comfortable. Therefore, instead of avoiding adverse situations, you should embrace them, whatever the consequences may be. This can be possible only when your self sustenance strength is at a moderate level, if not on the peak.

Compatibility to discriminate:

When you are able to develop the skill to discriminate right and wrong and act upon accordingly, you will be a successful person.  You will be able to catch the path which leads to happiness and comfort. The discrimination is essential for development of self-reliance. You will be able to fetch respect from society as well as from your colleagues at workplace, if you discharge your duties sensibly and with total commitment.

If you want to be self reliant and enjoy your work, you need to choose the path of freedom which will finally take you to the expected goals. You have to essentially devote yourself to hard work which will make you perfect and efficient.  This efficiency will render you excellence in accomplishing your assignments.  Finally, the state of perfection will make you self-sustainable and you will be able to take directional measures; and you will enjoy success in every phase of your life through your ability of discrimination.

A self reliant person does not depend on anybody’s mercy and is capable enough to guide himself to the right direction.  He acquires a quality of doing the things on his own and in this process, he becomes more confident.  Self reliance demands sincerity, considerable endurance, patience and observation.  A self-reliant person tackles situations he comes across in his day to day life and lives a comfortable life.