Tuesday, July 3, 2018
Be confident all the time
Be confident all the time
Some people are born with a fighting instinct. They don’t get nervous in the midst of any struggles. Even it is severe, they don’t show their anxieties and nervousness. They always seek opportunities on how to overcome the problems. They believe in one thing that if they lose their temperament and confidence level, chances will be there to get defeated miserably. They give importance to the fact that to survive in life and to sustain in the competition in today’s fiery world; you have to maintain a high level of receptivity. You also need to be slow and steady. If you are fast to accomplish all your activities whether it is small or significant, not necessarily, you will be a big achiever. Further, whatever may be your goals, you have to induce positive attitudinal feeling to become a lucky person. Without the same, nothing is possible. Then, you have to target your goals in such a way so that you achieve the same steadily. The sense of well-being must be your ideal benchmark. You need not stretch yourself too far to reach any target. Your stretching beyond capability may altogether yield a negative output and put you in a mental stigma. A slow performer is not at all a bad one provided he has put efforts steadfastly. The famous story of hare and tortoise is known to all, and the same is a burning example that fastness means not extraordinary results all the time. How to become more receptive and keep a control over your mental and physical fastness? Some are always in a hurry to complete every state of affairs they face, and some others are mentally so fast that sitting in their chairs, they can solve any problem happening far away. The quality is laudable, but it produces desired results once or twice, not always. To have a control on your far stretchy inclination, you need to rely on the power of meditation. Carrying out this technique, you calm yourself which will save you from the dissipated energy. You can always get the power of energy when you are slow, receptive and you have a control over your thoughts, words, and actions. If you stroll, you gather speed. But from the beginning itself, if you walk fast, you will cross the small lane quickly, but by the time you reach the main road, you will be thoroughly exhausted. But going slow, you remain energetic without any feeling of exhaustion. The simple reason for saving energy is because of your following slowness. As it takes the time to accumulate power, the same is the case with its spending. The more power you acquire throughout the day, the more you will be cheerful. A happy mind is the abode of an energetic body means you are more proactive to produce the best results in your field of activities. The experts in any field follow this theory of "slow but steady only wins the race." As speed and energy have a bearing on the progress of our life, you also receive new momentum and grace of God which is slow. God likes and appreciates those people, who perform on a continuous basis. God acknowledges the people's honesty, sincerity, and dedication for the purpose of bestowing blessings for their success in various endeavors. It is a fact that without the divine power; it is impossible to climb stairs and reach the peak level of success. Further, when you are slow, you can record every bit of your activities being discharged by you very minutely, and you will not lose energy so fast means you will not be exhausted physically and mentally. Being slow means, you should not be the backbencher. It only says that you have to control your impulsive actions. Precisely that is the reason; some people when they return from their working remain remarkably fresh. Not only that, they even assist their family members to finish the household activities.
Many people don’t like to be slow at all. If any idea comes to their mind, they gear up fast to discharge the ideas into realities. Because of impulsive choices, the decision may not be that rational. It is an excellent characteristic attribute to convert any brilliant idea into a practical shape, but we find that eighty percent decisions taken out of impulsiveness do not bring the productivity as envisaged. For example, while roaming in a mall, you come across an electronic gadget which looks to be attractive and useful, but not required by you at that time and without giving any rational thoughts of the other aspects; you purchase only to repent afterward. It is merely an action of superfluous not giving much responsible thinking. Mostly it is based on calculated risk. Also, the impulsive actions are dangerous particularly when we are in a depressed mood. In this mental condition we eat more, we buy unnecessarily; we argue without any solid base, or only we want to ensure to finish any activity as fast as possible. To come out from this type of dark frame of mind, you need to be very receptive and be slow in all your activities at least for the time being to have a control on the overall situation. The actions taken out of impulsion and then showing repentance for the activities discharged eliminate energy. Then the positive frame of mind exhausts. All types of negative energies flock together in your mind which ultimately makes you angry, restless, unproductive, and you remain irritated mostly. You develop a habit of watching television more than which is required; you indulge excess eating to get rid of all these chaos, and finally become tired and sleep more. The result you put more weight and invite health hazard. Another concrete example is the game. If you consider slow and steady throughout the match, you will remain energetic for long, and guide the team enthusiastically to win the game. If you are slow and a bit receptive, you can calculate the other people’s strategy deeply.
The proverb says that one can beat opponents in their strategically move. If you are fast in your thoughts and actions, perhaps you will mistake the opponent’s movement. In the game of cricket, the slow blower always makes havoc in winning the match. That does not mean the fast bowler has any role, but the slow bowler is more efficient when the event takes a crucial stage. But some pundits opine that quick and the spontaneous actions are always the best, particularly in any artistic activity. But rapid response does not necessarily produce perfect expression in any art, poem, painting or any other creative activities. In art, one needs to be very careful to ensure a proper effect on the minds of the target audiences. Any actions taken based on impulsive behavior and with fastness may even destroy the career of an established artist. For a performer, he must be cautious in approach to reach any spontaneous decisions. Spontaneity is an act; you cannot mistake as an urge for the strategically thinking. In fact, you become more creative when you work slowly, consider carefully and perform steadily. Success will take its time to arrive. You're becoming fast does not guarantee you're achieving all milestones. Even it happens; it is not the case of every day. To create any artistic output correctly, you must embrace upon a contemplative mood so that creation becomes perfect. It not only touches your sense of accomplishing but also it creates an everlasting impression on everyone for whom you target the output. Taking any action only on the base of speed and exercising your spontaneity is a risky affair, and will spoil the beauty of artistic beauty.
Almost all the creators of artistic creations are great thinkers, rational performers, and support in believing of time versus output. Fast action is not the precursor of the entire production. One needs to be slow and steady and not to lose level of confidence to win any competition whether the same is related to social or professional.