Be confident
all the time
Some people are born with a fighting instinct. They don’t
get nervous in the midst of any struggles. Even it is severe, they don’t show
their anxieties and nervousness. They always seek opportunities on how to
overcome the problems. They believe in one thing that if they lose their
temperament and confidence level, chances will be there to get defeated
miserably. They give importance to the fact that to survive in life and to
sustain in the competition in today’s fiery world; you have to maintain a high
level of receptivity. You also need to be slow and steady. If you are fast to accomplish all your
activities whether it is small or significant, not necessarily, you will be a
big achiever. Further, whatever may be
your goals, you have to induce positive attitudinal feeling to become a lucky
person. Without the same, nothing is
possible. Then, you have to target your goals in such a way so that you achieve
the same steadily. The sense of well-being must be your ideal benchmark. You
need not stretch yourself too far to reach any target. Your stretching beyond capability may
altogether yield a negative output and put you in a mental stigma. A slow performer is not at all a bad one
provided he has put efforts steadfastly.
The famous story of hare and tortoise is known to all, and the same is a
burning example that fastness means not extraordinary results all the
time. How to become more receptive and
keep a control over your mental and physical fastness? Some are always in a
hurry to complete every state of affairs they face, and some others are
mentally so fast that sitting in their chairs, they can solve any problem
happening far away. The quality is laudable, but it produces desired results
once or twice, not always. To have a control on your far stretchy inclination,
you need to rely on the power of meditation.
Carrying out this technique, you calm yourself which will save you from
the dissipated energy. You can always get the power of energy when you are
slow, receptive and you have a control over your thoughts, words, and actions.
If you stroll, you gather speed. But from the beginning itself, if you walk
fast, you will cross the small lane quickly, but by the time you reach the main
road, you will be thoroughly exhausted. But going slow, you remain energetic
without any feeling of exhaustion. The simple reason for saving energy is
because of your following slowness. As it takes the time to accumulate power,
the same is the case with its spending.
The more power you acquire throughout the day, the more you will be
cheerful. A happy mind is the abode of an energetic body means you are more
proactive to produce the best results in your field of activities. The experts in any field follow this theory
of "slow but steady only wins the race." As speed and energy have a
bearing on the progress of our life, you also receive new momentum and grace of
God which is slow. God likes and appreciates those people, who perform on a
continuous basis. God acknowledges the people's honesty, sincerity, and
dedication for the purpose of bestowing blessings for their success in various
endeavors. It is a fact that without the divine power; it is impossible to
climb stairs and reach the peak level of success. Further, when you are slow, you can record
every bit of your activities being discharged by you very minutely, and you
will not lose energy so fast means you will not be exhausted physically and
mentally. Being slow means, you should
not be the backbencher. It only says that you have to control your impulsive
actions. Precisely that is the reason;
some people when they return from their working remain remarkably fresh. Not only that, they even assist their family
members to finish the household activities.
Many people don’t like to be slow at all. If any idea comes to their mind, they gear up
fast to discharge the ideas into realities.
Because of impulsive choices, the decision may not be that rational. It is an excellent characteristic attribute
to convert any brilliant idea into a practical shape, but we find that eighty
percent decisions taken out of impulsiveness do not bring the productivity as
envisaged. For example, while roaming in
a mall, you come across an electronic gadget which looks to be attractive and
useful, but not required by you at that time and without giving any rational
thoughts of the other aspects; you purchase only to repent afterward. It is
merely an action of superfluous not giving much responsible thinking. Mostly it is based on calculated risk. Also,
the impulsive actions are dangerous particularly when we are in a depressed
mood. In this mental condition we eat more, we buy unnecessarily; we argue
without any solid base, or only we want to ensure to finish any activity as
fast as possible. To come out from this
type of dark frame of mind, you need to be very receptive and be slow in all
your activities at least for the time being to have a control on the overall
situation. The actions taken out of impulsion and then showing repentance for
the activities discharged eliminate energy. Then the positive frame of mind
exhausts. All types of negative energies flock together in your mind which
ultimately makes you angry, restless, unproductive, and you remain irritated
mostly. You develop a habit of watching television more than which is required;
you indulge excess eating to get rid of all these chaos, and finally become
tired and sleep more. The result you put
more weight and invite health hazard. Another concrete example is the
game. If you consider slow and steady
throughout the match, you will remain energetic for long, and guide the team
enthusiastically to win the game. If you
are slow and a bit receptive, you can calculate the other people’s strategy
deeply.
The proverb says that one can beat opponents in their
strategically move. If you are fast in your thoughts and actions, perhaps you
will mistake the opponent’s movement. In
the game of cricket, the slow blower always makes havoc in winning the match. That does not mean the fast bowler has any role,
but the slow bowler is more efficient when the event takes a crucial
stage. But some pundits opine that quick
and the spontaneous actions are always the best, particularly in any artistic
activity. But rapid response does not
necessarily produce perfect expression in any art, poem, painting or any other
creative activities. In art, one needs
to be very careful to ensure a proper effect on the minds of the target
audiences. Any actions taken based on
impulsive behavior and with fastness may even destroy the career of an
established artist. For a performer, he
must be cautious in approach to reach any spontaneous decisions. Spontaneity is an act; you cannot mistake as
an urge for the strategically thinking.
In fact, you become more creative when you work slowly, consider
carefully and perform steadily. Success
will take its time to arrive. You're becoming fast does not guarantee you're
achieving all milestones. Even it happens;
it is not the case of every day. To
create any artistic output correctly, you must embrace upon a contemplative
mood so that creation becomes perfect.
It not only touches your sense of accomplishing but also it creates an
everlasting impression on everyone for whom you target the output. Taking any
action only on the base of speed and exercising your spontaneity is a risky
affair, and will spoil the beauty of artistic beauty.
Almost all the creators of artistic creations are great
thinkers, rational performers, and support in believing of time versus
output. Fast action is not the precursor
of the entire production. One needs to
be slow and steady and not to lose level of confidence to win any competition
whether the same is related to social or professional.